350+ Never Have I Ever Questions for You and a Crush

Andrea Lawrence
11 min readNov 13, 2021

How well do you know your partner? Never Have I Ever questions can help break the ice and teach you something you didn’t know about your partner. (iStock)

Introduction to Game

Never Have I Ever is a popular drinking game. It is also called Ten Fingers. Players take turns announcing things they’ve never done. Those who have done the thing in question must put one finger down or take a shot. The player who wins either still has some drink left or has fingers still standing.

The drinking version is played by adults. Ten Fingers is played by adolescents and children.

The game is two-fold. You want to get people out of the game before you. It’s also a way to get to know others. The following list is for romantic situations. It may also give your partner an idea or two about what they can plan for the future.

Rules

Players generally form a circle. The first player starts by making a simple statement about something they’ve never done.

Some people employ another rule — if no one takes a drink or puts a finger down, then the person asking the question has to do so. This pushes people to strategize more and ask fewer random questions.

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Andrea Lawrence

Poet, creative writer, loves a bit of satire, food and wine journalist, relationship writer, interior design maven, Midwestern background.